We originally intended for this to release during our July Sex Features but things got a bit “sticky”, but hey, it’s better to be late then never.

“The inner freak in all of us has a playlist dedicated to sex and today I’m presenting the first of many to come (pun intended). Now with the hunger of desire, the thrill of penetrating you, close your eyes and turn up the volume. Experience my gift to you.”

Head over to our founder, Adrian Farquharson personal site to check the track listing and download: www.mragetoyou.com

7 days ago I launched a experiment with my best female friend in effort to show that the majority of women crave things they can’t have, especially men.

During these 7 days there was no communication between myself and anyone else on Facebook. At the end of the week, I received 6 messages with women showing their cleavage, 15 messages inquiring about my “relationship” and who my “girlfriend” is. None of those women I’ve spoken to before. Those where there were any flirtations between, quietly fell off the radar. I assume with respect for my “relationship”… but to you other conniving females, YA’LL AIN’T SHIT.

Also, I received 32 friend requests during this time. Out of the 32, 30 were females. Out of that 30, 10 sent private messages introducing themselves. (If you’re reading this, don’t be offended. You did no wrong, just stating facts)

Now let’s take it a bit deeper. Race shouldn’t matter in the world we live in but sadly it does. Interestedly enough, all of the women who sent seductive pics were Hispanic. All of the women bold enough to question who “my girlfriend” was African American. Take that however you wish.

Now let’s get even deeper. Of the Hispanic women who gracefully sent those pics, all were under the age of 23. All of the African American women, who questioned my “relationship”, were between the ages 23-36.

So what’s my point with this experiment: women cheat more than men, this is not my opinion it’s proven facts with stats. Women will chase after a man who is taken. Why? Who the hell will ever know! Is it because she wants to see if she can tempt him to cheat or see what’s so good about her that she got him to commit or is it because she can pursue with no strings attached.

Women want what’s off limits

Let’s take it back to the beginning of time in the Garden of Eden, Eve took a bite into the one piece of fruit God and Adam instructed her not to eat. From that very moment, women have wanted what they could not have. This urge still exists to this day and will absolutely linger around long after you and I are gone from this earth, whether its for a pair of shoes, expensive jewelry and for the aforementioned taken man. The more tantalizingly out of the reach the thing they desire is, the more appealing it becomes.

Women hear good things about taken men

It usually works out that your significant other is a reflection of you, and women sure do talk their ass off so when you’re not around your girl will become your publicist and tell all her girls about the cute-sweet-romantic shit that you do, hobbies, the type of job you have, how big your apartment is, etc. This then paints a Prince Charming fantasy in the heads of her listeners and by the time she gets to the story about you volunteering at medical camps in Cambodia, you’ve become the man they all wish for and want your girlfriend’s title.

Women want an ego boost

Man or woman, the ultimate ego boost is the knowledge that you’re not just attractive, but irresistibly desirable. Consider this: If a man risks his entire relationship — commitment be damned — for one exceptionally steamy night with another woman, that other woman will go home feeling like she has performed a crossover on Michael Jordan. That’s bragging rights to the max. A shot of confidence like that could make up for a long dry spell of celibacy or jump-start a love life. Plus, if she’s unable to win him over, there’s a net to catch her: “Of course he’s not interested in me; he’s in a relationship.”

Women see taken men as having desirable qualities

A man who is in a serious relationship with someone must have much to offer. The fact that he is so desired by someone else makes him all the more attractive to the single woman. To help you further understand how women perceive the dating pool, think of men like parking spaces surrounding a popular restaurant on a Friday evening. The best ones, meaning the ones closest to the restaurant, will be occupied for a few hours. But as one gets farther from the front door, the parking spots aren’t as good, so they open up with greater regularity or, in some cases, remain open permanently. In short, women believe that men who are single are single for a reason. Backward as it may sound, the ones who aren’t available are the ones worth going for.

Women like a challenge

Women who demonstrate the right combination of warmth and affection can snatch a single guy like candy on Halloween. Taken men, for the most part are tougher to get. For starters, they’re probably content with their current girlfriend and not too keen on gambling that relationship. You’d think this would deter an aggressive girl, but no. With two hearts that stand to gain (and only one to be crushed as collateral damage), the stakes are too high to back out. Also, what if he’s not as happy as he looks? Hmm hello window of opportunity!

Women love drama

Then there are those women who simply have nothing better to do with their lives and have some hidden anger for their own gender. Some are out for revenge, others make a habit of seeing if they “can get him,” whatever the outcome is. Women size up their competition and somehow rationalize that her boyfriend is begging to be with a “real woman” – whatever that means. Remember, too, that women are impatient when they want results they want them yesterday.

In the end…

The pursuit of the unattainable man can be a thrilling challenge, but the end result always ends up in heartache; one cannot un-attach anything without ripping some seams. Either much time and effort is wasted by trying to change what doesn’t need fixing, or in the event you are successful and end up attaining the unattainable, there is bound to be distrust on both sides. For him, there’s the fear that you’re not the type who respects relationships, and that it might extend to your own. For you, you now know for certain that the man you’re with has cheated at least once.

One in four Facebook users use the social network to flirt with someone other than their current partner, while another one in four use it to snoop on partners who might be flirting. More interesting, one in four do not list their true relationship status.

Last week, MensHealth.com announced the results of a Facebook survey that reveal how the world’s most popular social website has helped people unleash their friskier side. Since the feature film about the origin of Facebook, “The Social Network,” is opened in theaters this past weekend, MensHealth.com dug deeper into the habits of users. The results are in.

MensHealth.com’s survey of nearly 3,000 people—1,329 men and 1,523 women—exposes how Facebook has changed relationships, fidelity, disclosure and good old-fashioned flirting. In addition to connecting with family and friends, people are using Facebook to monitor their partner’s activity, check-up on their exes, pick up new lovers and cheat on their current ones. Among the most shocking findings:

• 69% of people say they’ve used Facebook to flirt

• 24% of Facebook-flirters use the social network to flirt with someone other than their current partner

• 25% of surveyed people have hacked into their significant other’s Facebook account to snoop

• 59% of people say they’ve become jealous over their partner’s interactions with someone else on Facebook

• 23% of people say they have sent a friend request to an attractive stranger

• 85% of surveyed people have looked up an ex on Facebook

• 24% of surveyed people said they don’t list their true relationship status

• 32% of women surveyed have tried to reconnect with an ex on Facebook; 16% of those women were in a relationship with someone else at the time

Read MensHealth.com article here.

With all the “hype” over Jennifer Aniston’s new movie The Switch coming out this Friday, 40 year old women have become a hotter topic since the days of American Pie.  Dr. Block, Psychologist and Relationship expert, explains how woman in their 30s start to look at men based solely on their breeding abilities. The movie specifically deals with issues such as the female psyche, sperm donors, and that always ticking biological clock!

Have you ever wondered what’s going on through the mind of a 40year old unmarried, childless woman? A recent survey from BeautifulPeople.com, an  dating site for “beautiful people only”, surveyed 50,000 members and found 96 percent of women desired having beautiful children. Greg Hodge, Managing Director of BeautifulPeople.com said, “Parents want their children born with many fine attributes; like it or not attractiveness is an attribute in today’s society. It may not be politically correct to say so but what mother or father does not want a beautiful baby.”

Dr. Block thinks Jennifer Anistons character isn’t all that far off from reality. Dr. Block explains how women in their 30s subconsciously begin to hear the “tick tick” of their biological clock. Although some women choose to ignore the Big Ben of biology,  others fixate on it-revealing an interesting glimpse into the female psyche.  Do woman in their 30s, start looking at men based on breeding possibilities? Jennifer Anistons character, and Dr. Block absolutely agree!

Dr. Block says it begins in your 20s, where you choose men because “he’s hot.” Gradually phasing into your 30s, you begin searching for Mr. Right, experiencing numerous heartbreaks along the way. Coming into your 40s, the tick tock is at an all-time high. It has Jennifer Anistons character choosing a donor based strictly on looks…and it’s because she can’t ignore her biological clock.

Some Stats From The Survey:

* 96% of women desiring children want to have a beautiful baby

* 83% of women imagine what their children would look like with prospective partners

* 79% of women if selecting a mate solely for procreation would want that mate to be attractive

* 83% of women receiving donor sperm would want the donor to be attractive

YUM It is Lap Limbo time y’all!!!! Get it in bitches!

Your guy sits back in a roomy chair with a pillow placed under his knees to elevate them. Now you straddle him, lower yourself into the triangle of his lap, and lean back so you’re resting against his raised thighs. Bend your knees and put your ankles over his shoulders so they rest on the back of the chair. He grasps your hips as he enters you, and you set the rocking in motion by pushing your feet against the top of the chair as he thrusts by pulling your hips toward him.

The payoff of this racy recliner move starts with pure visual pleasure. With you in his lap, legs open, he’s got an up-close-and-intimate view of you, plus easy access to touch your breasts, your tummy, and between your legs. All that tender stroking will intensify the sensual, super slow buildup brought on by his minimal movements.

EXXXTRA CREDIT:
Since you’re in full control of the angle and depth of your stud’s penetration in this position, you can aim his penis toward your navel to hit the G-spot. Be his tawdry tour guide and tilt your bod just the right way so he shares the feel-good sensations.

OMFG! I LOVE this one. Even with her tummy being a lil extra, she still has fun doing this one. She just lets go and let it cum… hehehe It is a fun one cause you just throw the head back, titties are bouncing left and right and things are just super duper… HA! He can grab your ass and make you go faster, slower, harder… You control it but he can help the control…. Whew. Mama needs some dick! Who is stepping up to the plate?

Oh, it is about that time… time for Beach Ball Booty!!! This one is fun because you are on the beach, waves lapping at you while you are pressed against each other. *Shivers*

This position gives a whole new meaning to the phrase “Having a ball.” Lie on your tummy right at the shoreline. Put a beach ball under your pelvic area, keeping your legs spread slightly and your arms stretched out in front of you. Have your man lie over you in the same position with his legs together between yours and enters you from behind.

Since your pelvis is elevated by the ball, he has unprecedented access to the G-Spot. The combination of his thrusts and the water lapping up against your flesh feels downright sinful!

EXXXTRA CREDIT:
Dig your toes into the sand to steady yourself. Being anchored gives you better leverage for more passionate pelvic pumping.

Volvo conducted a Pan-European behavioral experiment, disguised as a launch party for the all-new Volvo S60 to find out. The Naughty City Study appointed Paris as the naughty capital of Europe.

“I observed people’s behavior during all five events, and the Parisians clearly came out as the most self-centered, natural exhibitionists. The Parisians were flirting and posturing, making an effort to be caught by the cameras. They disrespectfully walked over arranged flowerbeds, and they sang naughty songs out loud in our karaoke car. It was quite lovely to see them act out their naughtiness”, says Dr Katarina Graffman who has been traveling together with Lykke Li and Face Hunter around Europe with the Volvo Subject60 tour hitting Berlin, London, Milan, Paris and Madrid.

Now the Volvo Subject60 tour has come to an end, its true purpose is revealed. Disguised as fancy launch events for Volvo’s naughtiest car ever, the all-new S60, the tour was a carefully planned and monitored behavioral experiment. Six secret experiments were integrated in the party, and monitored by anthropologist Dr. Katarina Graffman. Each experiment was designed to unveil the naughty side of the citizens.

To compare people’s actual behavior with their preconceptions, the Naught City Study also comprises an extensive quantitative survey. The video proves that the results are nothing but naughty…

The Subject60 tour is promoting the all-new Volvo S60, a milestone for Volvo, showing a new naughty side of the brand. With close to a thousand guests at each lavish party, the crowds have interacted with the car, and simultaneously been put to the test when it comes to their own naughtiness.

In this years final installment for Q&A’s for our July Sex Features, we sit down with adult star Sara Jay. Starting out in the adult business since the age of 18, the curvaceous star went full time in the business after college and has been loving every ‘inch’ of it since. We’ve saved the best for last so without further ado, we present to you; Sara Jay.

Let’s start by finding out how you got into porn?

I was dancing and wanted to get into the porn industry. I sent out photos to anyone who would take them until I got hired and that job snowballed and led to many many more.

When was your first sexual experience?

I remember masturbating when I was 7 humping the blankets. I finally lost my virginity when I was 18. Until then I sucked a lot of cock.

Besides your on screen work, what other projects are you involved in?

I am a director as well. I also do lots of appearances all over the world.

At one point in the industry, there was racial differences due to the demand of what viewers wanted to see. White female performers didn’t perform with Black male performers because there wasn’t a huge demand. Has there been a change since?

Not at all…

What’s are some of the biggest misconceptions about the adult industry?

That we are all wealthy and have STDs. Not true, either of those statements.

Apart from people you’ve been with on film, who’s the one person you would like to have sex with?

I assume you mean someone not in the industry that I have not had sex with, perhaps Lennox Lewis.

Are you single? If so, is it difficult dating a guy or gal outside of the adult film industry?

I am single. I don’t even try to find someone. It’s a lot to ask.

Deep down, everyone wishes they could do porn, even it just for one moment but in the back of their head they worry about what their parents will think of their child. Do your parents know about your occupation? if so, how did they take it?

Yes, they do. They aren’t thrilled, but they accept it. Especially because I have remained the same person.

How do you prepare mentally and physically for a movie?

I don’t like to know who the male talent is. I like to fantasize about it beforehand. I try to really relax before, because I know when I get there my hormones will be all crazy.

The adult film industry is suffering due to the growing number of online sites that showing movies for free. What efforts are you using and doing to keep your cash flow coming in? and how are you fighting against these sites?

Yes, this is so true. I definitely have my people keep an eye on stolen content and I will/have made legal moves against this type of thing when possible. In the meantime I have been dancing and making appearances all over the world. I do most of the conventions. I also direct and have been putting extra effort into making my site very competitive.

Favorite position?

Cowgirl, hands down.

Is there a barrier for sex when it comes to filming and for personal satisfaction, i.e. are there things you won’t do on film but will do when the cameras off or vice versa?

Yes, I don’t do creampies in my movies, but I do in my personal life.

What were you doing before porn?

I was stripping in Las Vegas.

Colleagues of yours such as Katie Morgan and Sasha Grey have been featured in mainstream movies, do you have any plans to make it on the big(ger) screen?

Not really. I’m in it for the sex. With out sex it doesn’t seem like much fun.

Define success?

Happiness – plain and simple

For our third segment for Q&A’s with adult stars comes Kelly Divine. Originally out of Pennsylvania and been invited to the bright lights of the adult industry in Los Angeles after spending time modeling lingerie, with just 3 years in, she’s established herself not only as a actress but as director. As they say “it’s good to get paid and laid”. Read on as we discuss her thoughts on interracial acts and her favorite position.

Let’s start by finding out how you got into porn?

I got into porn almost 3 years ago in October 2007, I was 23. I was doing some swimsuit and promo modeling back in Philly, where I am from, and had an online portfolio. Porn agencies in LA kept contacting me about flying out and doing porn, I thought they were crazy! There isn’t talk of people being real pornstars back east. It’s like, unheard of! I kept turning it down but eventually the money got to me. I decided to try it, and as you can see it’s worked out quite well!

When was your first sexual experience?

I was the last of my friends to have sex. It was a month before I turned 17. I kinda did it just out of sheer curiosity. Peer pressure I guess.

Besides your on screen work, what other projects are you involved in?

I work on my website, WWW.KELLYDIVINE.COM almost every single day. I also have an online store, WWW.KELLYDIVINESTORE.COM, a very active blog, WWW.KELLYIVINEBLOG.COM, as well as a brand new awesome VOD site, WWW.KELLYONDEMAND.COM. I have the Internet going NUTZ! I also direct my own movies now too!

At one point in the industry, there was racial differences due to the demand of what viewers wanted to see. White female performers didn’t perform with Black male performers because there wasn’t a huge demand. Has there been a change since?

There is a HUGE demand or Interracial porn and has been ever since I got into the business. There just is a lot of racism in porn in general. I have been on both ends of the racism fence in my life growing up in Philly but I have never seen as much racism in life as I do in this business. I used to think it was crazy that girls didn’t do IR (interracial). I thought they were racist. I’m sure some are but most just didn’t because they were under the impression it would hurt their career. I think it is true that certain people look down on white girls who do IR. It’s crazy! It’s a shame that girls can put off doing IR for a few years and then start doing it to elongate their career or “shelf life” but it is what it is. Just business unfortunately. I have even heard of girls getting paid extra for working with black male talent. Now that work is slower due to the economy and the downward spiral of DVD sales, a lot of girls who wouldn’t do IR are changing their minds. It’s just crazy.

What’s are some of the biggest misconceptions about the adult industry?

I would say the biggest misconceptions are that people in porn are horrible people, that all the girls in porn have been raped and/or molested, and that we all have drug problems and are uneducated, fucked up people in general. Yes, there are those who fit that description, but there are also healthy people in this business. There are people who just love sex and money, like almost everyone in the world, who have the balls to do what makes them happy. Some girls get in, make money, and get out and go on to spend their money on college. There are grown women who have had success and who now do porn for the fun of it. It’s not all how the general public make it out to be, of course all the media wants to do is show people is the negative, dark side. Unfortunately, that’s what people want to hear and see. The bad stuff is the interesting stuff, like gossip.

Apart from people you’ve been with on film, who’s the one person you would like to have sex with?

Michelle Obama!

Are you single? If so, is it difficult dating a guy or gal outside of the adult film industry?

I am not single and yes it is difficult! No matter how you want it, the relationship can never be “normal”. It’s possible to find love and have a great relationship, but it will always be a far cry from what you’d call traditional.

Deep down, everyone wishes they could do porn, even it just for one moment but in the back of their head they worry about what their parents will think of their child. Do your parents know about your occupation? if so, how did they take it?

My parents know. I could never carry on a lie for this long, lol. My mom thinks its funny and my dad just wants me to be happy.

Favorite position?

Reverse spoon. Total porn position but it rocks! Besides that one, me on top!

Is there a barrier for sex when it comes to filming and for personal satisfaction, i.e. are there things you won’t do on film but will do when the cameras off or vice versa?

I used to not like eye contact or kissing on camera just because I had a hard time dealing with emotionless fucking. I have always been very monogamous, I only ever had sex with people I was in a relationship with. Now, I’m very comfortable with myself and my feelings. I can have my love making at home and my dirty fucking on camera. I like the eye contact now. I can just let go and I love it!

What were you doing before porn?

Before porn I worked in sales and also did swimsuit/lingerie and promotional modeling on the side.

Colleagues of yours such as Katie Morgan and Sasha Grey have been featured in mainstream movies, do you have any plans to make it on the big(ger) screen?

I would love to be in a mainstream feature film. I have done some acting work already. A few cable movie pilots and appeared on a couple TV shows. I have also been in many mainstream magazines.

Define success?

Success is total happiness. Doing what you love and making a life out of it.

Fellas, we need to dig deep into our predatory/ cave-mannish instincts! What do we all want this summer? Summers fling aka SEX. Women want it too, trust me.  But in order to get the girl, we need to set the trap.  With that said,  what’s a better trap than a nice ride?

Trap 1: Rolls Royce Drop Head Coupe

Ferrari 599

Lamborghini Murciélago LP 670-SV

The reason why I put these three vehicles together is self explanatory.  First Lady Michelle Obama will probably wink at you if you’re driving one of these phenomenal cars.

Trap 2: Mercedes Benz (in general)

Both women and men get turned on by status and stability, and Mercedes gives off just that.  It lets people around you know you’re an accomplished and sophisticated individual that carries yourself with class.  Hence the people staring at you.

Trap 3: BMW M6

The overall husky yet sleek look of the M6 is a jaw dropper.  This car does the favor of starting the conversation.  Now it’s up to the driver to finish it (wink wink).

Trap 4: Range Rover Sport

You can never go wrong with an SUV. The Range Rover is just sexy plus you don’t have to worry about hitting a pot hole and bending your S550 rims, or scraping the underbelly of your LP670.

Trap 5: Lexus LS460

The LS460 is luxury.  However it gives off a sense of sportiness which makes you wonder if Lexus really just masked a sports car in the frame of a luxury vehicle. If they did… God bless them! This thing hauls ass.

Trap 6: Audi S5

It’s a coupe, its stylish, its fast, it gets 2 thumbs up!

Trap 7: Nissan GT-R

If you want potential mates to know your coming… FROM A MILE AWAY! Then this is the way to go.  Attention seekers rejoice.

Trap 8: Infiniti G37

Want a stylish affordable car which looks like a Porsche, but cost much less?  Well here you go. The G37 coupe is very affordable, and with the many available body kits, you can make your own look.

Trap 9: Chevy Camaro

A Camaro? Really?  Yes! The new body on the Camaro has been getting a lot of attention from the opposite sex.  I blame the Transformers franchise.  Nonetheless, this is another affordable vehicle.  Perfect for the summer.

Trap 10: Smart Car

The smart car says “I care about the environment”, “Get to know me” and “I don’t have a big ego”.  Trust me, people are into smart cars.  You’ll be surprised how the opposite sex reacts.